I blame the world for making people judge a person by their
size rather than the quality they have. What is wrong by being fat or thin or
athletic? Why is it that you have to make someone feel bad about their body and
lower their self-esteem? Why can’t people just accept that every single person
is special and different in their own way?
No matter how hard I try, the perception of other human
towards my friend still bothers her. She has personal issues since she
was a kid and the people around her don’t do much to help her overcome that. Time
and time again she tries to fit in. She tries her very best to prove that she
is capable of achieving whatever that is necessary but people doesn’t seems to care
about it. They keep on suggesting that her achievement is never good enough or that she should try harder to
achieve things and many other hurtful words.
The things is… how is it that you are not proud of her? Why is
it that you keep bringing up the problems she made when she was a kid?
SERIOUSLY. Why can’t you just appreciate who she is now. She completed her
studies. She is now working. Paying for her own expenses. She doesn’t really
ask money from you since… I don’t know…. 5 years ago?? Unless she is really in
need. She buys her own toiletries when some people still have their parents pay
for their shit even when they now earning 4k!
Why must she try harder to be someone that she’s not? What
is it that you really want from her?! Can’t you just leave her alone? You are
just being biased for whatever reason there is. Doesn’t she being helpful in
terms of finances now? She is being very responsible in whatever way that she
could. PLEASE stop making her feel bad about herself and hurt her.
It is impossible for me to comfort her when there are too
many things that keep on lowering her spirit. The wound is so deep that
regardless if I managed to make her smile or comfort her there will still be
the painful smile. I want her to see who and what she is now. I am so proud
of every attempt and achievements she made. I am also proud that I am her
friend.
Wherever you are, I want you to know that you are special
regardless of what others tell you. Thank
you for accepting and appreciating our differences. I love you babe.
